So I have just sent the following message to my husband after receiving a number of abusive messages from him last night:
Hi sea dog. I appreciate that it can't have been pleasant to receive divorce papers and as I have initiated this, I have had time to process it. You have n't.
However, in the past 8 months I have also learnt to love, respect and value myself. I have learnt what is okay and what is not okay. And it is not okay to express difficult emotions via abusive texts to me. And I will no longer accept this behaviour.
If you choose to oppose the divorce, I will email the photograph that you sent me of the defaced divorce papers to the Court as evidence that you have received the paperwork. The Sheriff can then grant the decree nisi without your consent.
If you react abusively to this message then I will screen shot it with the others from last night and contact the police. I will no longer accept harassment and abuse.
I will welcome contact you from you in the future, as a friend, when you have explored and understood the reasons for this abusive behaviour. Until then, it is best that we are not in contact. Love, Cath #compassionateboundaries #authenticpower #braveasfuck.
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